Something you must understand: Women are emotional and men are logical.
The meaning? Women isn't ONLY attracted to looks unless your an 8+ and
therefore you have to convey your personality so you can make her emotional in a good way.. thanks to JT47319 you can now get a better understanding of this..

Let’s get something straight, girls judge by looks. No ifs ands or buts about it, they simply do. They want someone tall, dark, and handsome with a huge cock. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS. They ALSO want someone that can fill an emotional vacuum as well as PROVIDE THEM with an emotional stimulus.

Honestly, I wouldn’t want to be a chick because guys judge almost exclusively by ONE CRITERIA. Which is looks. Now girls, judge by TWO CRITERIA (well, actually more, but for the sake of simplicity…) which are looks and YOUR ABILITY TO AFFECT THEIR EMOTIONS. Or, in lay man’s terms, your “personality.�

In order to exude confidence, fun, cool, and a host of other emotions, you must CONVEY that you have all these personality traits. This can range from peacocking in wild, outlandish, cool clothes showing that you are fun and unconventional to the VERBAL GAME

IF you have VERBAL GAME, then you can convey your personality, show the girl who you are, as well as push all those attraction buttons in a girl.

Some key elements of VERBAL GAME:

PROJECTION – If you cannot PROJECT and be VOCAL above the loud noise, sounding confident and engaging the group, then you are not conveying your personality. They cannot HEAR you and thusly will judge you simply on looks.

STORY TELLING – Girls communicate by story telling. They are emotional beings. Do not recite facts. Do not ask inane questions, but CONVEY YOUR PERSONALITY by telling multiple stories from your life that range from the funny, to the exciting, to the vulnerable. Role playing, future projection, and just being damn funny. Singing. Yes, I said singing.

KINO – Girls affect others (male & female) by touch. They know they can affect a man’s emotions and state by touching you. This also applies vice versa. You CAN touch girls without fear. You CAN caress them without fear. You CAN push them around without fear. You CAN kiss them without fear. BECAUSE GIRLS ENJOY KINO AND THEY ENJOY YOUR TOUCH.

SEXUAL STATE – By being in a sexual state, by being WILLING to phase shift into a sexual state and force HER into a sexual state, you are CONVEYING that you are a SEXUAL MAN. You WANT her and SHE wants you. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS.

ENERGY – This is ESSENTIAL for interrupting large sets AND mixed sets. You must be willing to EXUDE and GIVE your energy to others. You must ENJOY the process of partying, sarging, and socializing with total strangers and NOT GIVE A SHIT.

PHYSICAL SPACE – Physical space is AN ILLUSION. You can invade her physical space, get closer to her, and FORCE her to look at you. On the flip side, you can act INDIFFERENT and make her insecure in her ability to attract YOU because you are keeping a certain amount of physical space.

INTERACTION – This is mostly for those who are heavily routine dependent. If you are simply reciting routine after routine, the girl will feel LESS INVESTED in the moment. You must PULL HER IN and interact with her.

FRAME CONTROL – You MUST control the frame, whatever that may be. You can treat her as a CHILD and she MUST accept it. She will be PULLED into YOUR reality and be fully concentrated on YOU. You cannot let HER control the frame or otherwise she will have NO EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH YOU.

QUALIFICATION – You MUST qualify her in order to create and maintain an emotional connection with her. Otherwise you will come off as either an ENTERTAINMENT, DANCING MONKEY or a PLAYER who simply takes her number and leaves, leaving her feeling cold, used, and impersonal. You MUST state at some point what about HER that YOU like. DIRECT GAME depends on this the MOST (ie You are BEAUTIFUL and I’d like to get to KNOW you better).

BODY LANGUAGE – While this is not exclusively VERBAL, the fact is, your body language SUBCOMMUNCIATES to others what YOUR status and value is. If you LOOK like you are uncomfortable in a social setting, your value, coolness, and overall personality GOES DOWN. If you LOOK and ACT like someone COMFORTABLE in his skin, then your value goes up. This can include the way you hold yourself, react to girls touching and talking with you, to dancing.

If you are NOT good looking, your only recourse is to have a hella tight VERBAL GAME. Mysterious, brooding, silent and sexy only works for Naturals who ARE naturally good looking and can get away without any kind of game.

So, to make a long story short, if you are NOT good looking (8 and above), then you MUST convey your personality to a girl in order for HER to find YOU attractive beyond just the physical aspects. You can think of yourself as the most fun, exciting, intellectual, sensitive guy, but if you cannot CONVEY it, if you are some wallflower that sticks to the shadows, then you cannot DEPLOY your verbal game and CREATE the attraction in her. Then you are depending on LUCK and HOPING that she somehow magically SEES those amazing aspects of you based on no observational, supporting data.

I recently found an old newsletter by David DeAngelo, its a really nice post guys and might clear up things for you when you didn't understand why the women wouldn't love you back when you confessed your love to her.

I'd like to tell you a story...
It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be alarmed.
Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman. At first, she was just another attractive woman... but the more he got to know her, the more he began to feel attracted to her... and the more time he spent with her, the more that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and affection for her.
But there was one problem.

As his emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, he also grew more and more insecure.

Why?

Because he couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way towards him.

Sometimes she would say things like "You are so important to me" and "I'm glad that you're in my life"... but nothing ever progressed past the "friendship" stage.

There was an occasional hug, an occasional kiss on the cheek from her... and once she even held his hand for a long time while he talked about an emotional issue.

But something was wrong with the picture.

She just wasn't acting like a woman that was "falling in love". She was acting like a friend. The insecurity that he felt became a spiral that amplified itself... and the more insecure he became, the more afraid he grew of "screwing things up" by kissing her or asking her to be his girlfriend.

Plus, the more insecure he became, the less time she seemed to want to spend with him.

After spending many days and nights obsessing over this girl, the man finally arrived at the conclusion that if she only knew how HE FELT, that she would feel the same way.

So he made a bold move. He TOLD HER how he was felt. He confessed that he was in love, and that he would do anything to be with her.

She looked at him with compassion in her eyes and said "Thank you... I really mean that... but I don't want to mess up our friendship... you're too important to me...".

This only confused the man more. He didn't know how to take it...

Did it mean that she really loved him too, but that she was afraid of something?Did it mean that she wasn't ready for a long-term relationship?
Did it mean that she didn't love him, but that she was trying to give him a hint?Did it mean that he hadn't tried hard enough?
Did it mean that he needed to put everything on the line and REALLY let her know how he felt?

He finally decided that he couldn't go on like this anymore... he had to be with her.

He had to make sure that she knew just how much he wanted to be with her... so he took a big step, bought her a symbolic gift, and wrote her a long, long letter... again confessing his feelings.

And then the unthinkable happened.

She didn't reply.

He called her three times a day for almost a week before reaching her.

She made an excuse about being very busy, and said "I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go"...
and hung up...
...but he never got a call back.

Over the following months, the man tried desperately to understand what went wrong... and what happened.

THE END

OK, I'm back.

Now, wasn't that a sweet story?
Heart warming, huh?
I know, I should keep my day job, and not take up writing romance novels...

Now, let's talk about that story. That story is basically a MYTH.
And I'm not talking about FICTION here.

I'm talking about a story that rings true for a great majority of men. A story that is timeless. A story that resonates at a deep level because you can IDENTIFY with it.

And why does this particular story resonate for most men?

Because we've all been there in one way or another...
at one time or another... and many of us have been there OFTEN in our lives.

Another thing that gives this particular story a lot of power is the powerful negative emotions that it stirs... as a result of the powerful negative experiences that it reminds us of...Stories and situations like this one really FASCINATE me.

They fascinate me because I see them as an opportunity to UNDERSTAND and SOLVE the puzzles that they represent. In this particular situation I think there is a solution. And it lies in understanding a secret that women know but MEN DON'T.

And that secret comes down to the reality that if a woman isn't ATTRACTED to a man, all of his attempts to confess his love, convince her to like him, and court her BACKFIRE.

In other words, they not only DON'T WORK, they actually make things WORSE. In other words, the very things that a man does to try to make a woman LIKE HIM make her NOT like him. They make her run.

All those great intentions and emotional dedication actual cause the man feeling them to do things that make her go away.

It sucks.

And I hope that by explaining the process of how this happens to you I'll help you avoid this painful situation in your own future...

THE "INSTANT EWWW"

I'm always fascinated by the idea that we humans don't always understand the message that we're communicating to others...

So often we think that because we WANT to communicate a message that others are going to NATURALLY understand what we're trying to say.

Have you ever seen a guy in a foreign car that has wheels on it that cost more than the car itself... with his stereo blasting... and a muffler that somehow AMPLIFIES the raw sound of the 4-cylinder motor...?
Have you ever thought to yourself "I don't think that car is communicating the message to women that he thinks it is"...?
Yea, I have too.

Well here's the deal:
If you do something to "let a woman know how you feel"... but she isn't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to backfire.

It's going to trigger a feeling that like to call the "Instant Ewww".

The Instant Ewww is just as powerful as the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION. Once a woman feels it, YOU'RE DONE.

It's over.

It's like hammering a RAILROAD SPIKE into the coffin. Once a woman feels the Instant Ewww, she will start behaving differently.

In short, she'll disappear.

So where did I get the concept of the "Instant Ewww"?

I got it from WOMEN.

I have actually heard SEVERAL women use the word "Ewww" when describing how they felt about a guy that was "confessing his love"... of course, these were guys that weren't loved in return.

So what causes the Instant Ewww?

And why would a woman feel it towards a man who was trying to be nice... a guy who was giving her a gift or telling her how he feels? Because if you think about it from HER perspective, you'll realize that the moment a you do something to "confess", you have created a TURNING POINT in the relationship.

Up until that point, you were harmless. I mean, women always know how men feel. She already knew you wanted her. She knew it from the beginning.

But now that you've started pursuing her and talking about how you feel, you've created a NEGATIVE TENSION that is VERY uncomfortable.

You've triggered an emotion that is repulsive to women. And it does repel them.

In summary...
You can't "make a woman like you" or "change how she feels about you" by doing nice things for her...

Doing "nice" things for a woman who isn't attracted to you HURTS you. It backfires. Worse, it creates the "Instant Ewww" feeling that makes it so she'll NEVER like you.

Men make this mistake over and over again in life because they're doing what MAKES SENSE to them. They're doing it because they don't have an understanding of ATTRACTION.

I mean, If you have a friend, and you like them, and you want to make them like you more... and you do some nice thing for them, they will probably like you more.

On the other hand...
If you have a woman that you "like" in a romantic way, and she doesn't "feel it" for you, and you do something nice for her because you want HER to like you more, it will BACKFIRE... and she will not only NOT like you more, she will most likely distance herself from you.

Guys think that they need to communicate when they like a woman... as if that's part of the necessary process of getting a girl.

In their minds, it goes like this: Like her> Tell her you like her> She likes you

Well remember... if you follow this pattern yourself with women who aren't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to BACKFIRE.

If she's not into you, then it goes like THIS: She thinks of you as a friend> You tell her you like her> She gets the "Instant Ewwws" and never wants to be around you again...

THE ANSWER

There are really TWO answers to this problem.

The first answer is what to do if you're in a situation where you like a particular girl, but you don't know if she likes you back.
DON'T GET HEAVY WITH HER.
Don't buy her a big gift and write a love letter...
Don't send her ten dozen roses to her work with a not that says "From your secret admirer".
Don't call her three times a day.
And DON'T CONFESS YOUR LOVE for her.
If you want to know how she feels about you, KISS HER (and use "The Kiss Test" that you learned on my website and in my book).
As a rule of thumb, don't get heavier than HER. Use SIGNALS from her to find out how she feels...
and if you don't know how to read and create those signals, then LEARN.
Asking a woman if she's interested in your in a romantic way, or if you are "her type" will actually DESTROY the chances that she'll like you.
Really.

The SECOND answer is to not get into this particular situation in the FIRST PLACE. Avoid it entirely. And how does one do that?

One does that by creating ATTRACTION from the beginning. One does that by understanding the dynamics of how and why women have the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION triggered. One does that by knowing what you're doing FROM THE BEGINNING.

I bring you this article by Cortez, instructor of the Badboy Lifestyle workshops for those who doesn't know.

She has to FEEL you two are soulmates, like she has known you forever. When it happens fast, you will hear the following from her: "Oh my God I don't know why I'm telling you this, I don't even know you.."

What happened?
She FEELS she knows me better then her best friend and her logical brain supplies her with information "You don't know this guy!"
And yes, rapport gets you girl!

The following is for guys who want Rapport Fast:

Attraction is naturally created between people.

With deep rapport you will get her. If not the first time you see her, then the second or third you will. She will remember you as someone special and think of you all the time. Good rapport brings the chick to you.

What to do to get in rapport, guys:

- Relax. It is important. RELAX. Nervous guys, don't drink coffeine, don't look around like you escaped from jail. Act like you're alone in the most comfortable place on Earth. Make that place exist in your imagination if you have never been in a place like that.

- Avoid everyday chat (weather, school, job, newspapers, movies..) you will need weeks to get rapport with that.

- Skip the usual introductions and talk with her like she is your twin sister, in fact even more openly than you would with your twin sister.

- Go deep (share some emotions with her, talk about yourself (example: how you fell in love first time when you were 5 years old, how you had a rabbit and he was your friend and when he died you were very sad and felt vulnerable..)

- Listen when she follows with her deep story. Leave comments aside. Don't interrupt with: "That's good!", "That's funny", "Oh that's so bad for you". Just listen. Don't criticise or judge her whatever she says. Never involve in discussion. If you do so you're pushing her away. If you "agree" with her or "approve" her actions you loose trust from her. Just listen. Ask a question if something is not clear to you. When you finish asking, shut up and listen her for a while. You must NOT become her cushion. It happens in 15 mins to 2 hours, only longer in special situations. Don't make it long. If you make it long without stepping forward (kiss), there is a danger of becoming a friend, or even worse, marriage material.

- Don't try hard to find common things between you two. Do it more like you're just informing yourself about her and her about your thoughts, or even better, you're just thinking loudly, with no specific objective.

- Don't give her eye contact too much. Save it's power for later. Give it more and more in moments before kiss, and make a last one longer.

- Cube and similar techniques can work if used on right place in right time and by skilled person. I prefer something else: use experience to explain how she feels or what she thinks or why she behaved in such way in such occasion. That adds HUGE amounts of rapport, it's quicker and less borring.

Newbies, the above is gold , I'm writing it for you instead of sleeping so *pay* *fuckin* *attention*. Re-read, apply and get that girl!

Alphahot1 who came up with the concept of "Shit Tests" reveals one of the largest seduction trends and explains how to deal with it.

‘The world of seduction is ever changing'

What I personally do, it try to look for the trouble spots, the points where there seems to be a degree a legitimate confusion or misunderstanding, and correct those misunderstandings to the best of my ability.

If you go through the ASF subject headers for the last few months, you will see that the word "supplication" has become a new buzzword for all us folks here at ASF.

Ok this is really very simply. First of all, not supplicating to a woman simply means that you make the *conscious* choice that you are not going to beg or grovel to a woman for sex, ever.

But why do we focus so much on this crazy "non-supplication" thing so much in the first place. In other words... what's wrong with begging or groveling for sex if it gets you sex?

The truth is, is that in VERY large part, non-supplication is more about YOUR OWN SELF-RESPECT than it is about anything else. And probably the biggest part of self-respect is simply what you are willing to say "no" to.

Let me give you a hypothetical situation. Say that by begging an HB for a period of 1 week to have sex with you, that you could accomplish that goal and she ends up banging you. Would you call it a triumph? And understand that I make NO assumptions here at all. Would you call it a triumph?

Some men would. And only from personal experience can I say that most SSers and PUAs would not.

In truth, some men do indeed adopt the simple philosophy of "Have sex with women by any means." This includes supplication, the whole begging and groveling routine.

But the truth is this: Most, and I emphasize, *most* women will NOT want to have sex with you if you are the supplicating type of male. If she DOES give you sex because of your persistent begging for it, you can pretty much bet the farm that it is and was ONLY a MERCY fuck, and in most all cases, it will be the first and LAST time she ever bangs you. What we are talking about here is RESPECT. Respect both on the part of the woman, AND, on YOUR part as it relates to your own self-respect.

Women simply just DO NOT like the thought of having sex with a man that they cannot or do not respect. It is just one of those kind of things that sorta makes their skin crawl. It grosses them out. It makes their stomach turn. Can I make it any plainer?

Why would a man not supplicate to a woman? Well to really take all of the ambiguity out of this and make it very clear and understandable, we need to look at the life of a hypothetical guy I know. We'll call this guy Bruce.

Bruce is the kinda guy that has women calling him constantly. Women are always coming to his house. He has the option of getting laid on almost any night of the week he chooses, and has a choice of almost a dozen different HBs to choose from at any one time. Further, Bruce is constantly replenishing his supply of women. So there is never a time when he has less than about a dozen to have sex with.

So in short, Bruce can EASILY get sex at almost any time he chooses from a rather vast harem of chicks that he knows who are always more than eager to have sex with him.

Now the important thing here is NOT how Bruce came to be in this very pleasant state of affairs. That is a matter for another discussion. But simply realize that he IS there.

Now we are going to change the scenario a bit.

Now YOU have become Bruce. Step into Bruce and his life and feel what that would feel like. You know that Bruce has MANY options for sex at ANY time he chooses with a very large variety of women. And since you are now Bruce, it is YOU who has these options. Make this experience real in your mind. Imagine exactly what that would be like for you as it becomes the reality of your life.

Ok.

Now you meet a new woman at your favorite hang-out place or online or where ever. This chick is a true HB (picture one of the hottest babes you know here). You introduce yourself to, and talk with this chick for a while. Let's say she gives you her phone number.

So you call her up and set up a meet somewhere with her. (Note: understand that all of this could happen in any one of a thousand different ways, but that doesn't really matter here). So you meet her at the appointed place at the appointed time. Your goal is to make her a new member of your harem. A new and exciting sex partner. After an hour or two or three (or however long it takes you) you go for the close. BAM! Roadblock!

She throws out the Jack-Ass test (insert your favorite female shit-test here).

Whatever the test is (it doesn't really matter at this point) it is specifically designed by her to stop you dead in your tracks and prevent you from getting what you want OR to test you to see what kind of a guy you really are before she will even consider going any further with you.

Remember...you are Bruce. You already have around a dozen decent chicks that you can have sex with at any given time and you know it.

What do you do?

Telling the bitch to fuck off and die because you already have a dozen other hot chicks the you can bed anytime you want would be one option. But it may certainly not be the best option for obvious reasons. You could give into her shit-test in the hopes that it might make her eager to fuck you. But we have already found that this is a strategy which rarely, if ever, works.

These are two extreme responses to the situation, so let's briefly take a moment to analyze them both.

If you tell the bitch to fuck off because you have dozens of other bitches to fuck, it will make her resent you and see you as a generally very unlikable piece of shit. (There are some RARE exceptions to this with certain chicks but this will not be covered here). On the other hand, if you totally give into her shit-test, she will not respect you, and guys who chicks don't respect... chicks don't fuck.

As with most all extremes, the answer usually always lies somewhere in the middle.

So again, what is the answer? Well, if you really DID put yourself in Bruce's place, I think the answer may have been clear to you already.

Bruce does not need to supplicate, nor does he need to get pissed off and tell the chick to fuck off. Bruce plays her game, but he plays it adroitly. And in doing so, he is no longer player HER game but playing his OWN game. Remember the Golden Formula for sexual prosperity. You can be warm and friendly, but also confident, powerful and decisive.

Since there's almost no way out of getting a bit more specific here, for the purpose of illustration, let's fill in the blank for the shit-test in this particular instance.

Let's say that after Bruce's ‘date' with this chick, she calls him up the next day and asks him if he will come over tomorrow to help her wash her car. (This is a loaded test by the way). Bruce does not say yes, nor does he say fuck no.

He'd probably say something more like, "I'd love to if I could [girl's name] but I'll be pretty busy with a lot of things I have to get done tomorrow and I can't help you. Maybe some other time." (You may REALLY actually have another chick that you've already planned to spend time with and fuck tomorrow).

Now there could be a hundred worse comebacks for this or there could be a hundred better ones. The point is that you have passed the shit-test without supplicating and without getting pissed off. NOTE! If the bitch cannot handle a response like this, then she is either a CONTROL freak or some other demented form of game-player and either way you do NOT want her.

This particular shit-test will probably never happen to you in reality, so you may as well stop thinking about it. Its only purpose is to illustrate the basic way of how to go about properly handling shit-tests.

Notice something else that is very interesting here. It is BECAUSE Bruce is in the very position that he is in that he can handle shit-tests without getting pissed off and without supplicating. In short, he has nothing to lose. Now here's the second part of the equation. Since Bruce DOES have so many chicks he can fuck, he doesn't need to say this to other women. It automatically radiates through in his personality. Chicks can and do pick up on these kind of things. His actions in his confident demeanor will speak this MUCH louder than words. And this makes other chicks want to fuck him even more.

But you say, "Well I don't really have a dozen chicks that I can fuck at any time." And this is where some very serious mental discipline will have to come in. The truth is, if you do not have a dozen chicks to fuck, or even one chick to fuck, you *must* BELIEVE and ACT as though you have a dozen chicks to fuck until it becomes a reality. I'm not going to pretend to tell you the perfect way on how to do this. There are MANY ways. But if you are really at a loss on this, here is one thing you MAY want to try. It has worked well for me at my early points.

Simply think about and revivify EVERY chick you have successfully seduced and/or fucked all throughout your life. Revivify and amplify the experience as a full color motion picture in your mind when you are around women, complete with all the sights, sounds and sensations. Continue to loop these experiences in your mind, over and over, from one girl to the next. That ought to help you quite well in knowing that you are perfectly capable of getting and fucking women both in the past AND future, and most importantly, the present. Trust me. These feelings will transmit to chicks, and that's exactly what you want.

So to summarise, we have learned that not supplicating to a chick does not demand telling her to go straight to Hell or completely blowing her off at the slightest sign of trouble.

Like it or not, chicks are going to give you the jack-ass and the shit-tests. There is no way around it. But remember that chicks do these things for a reason (assuming she isn't just some demented bitch out to play with your brain).

If you haven't done so already, I would strongly suggest reading the article, ‘Seduction Trends: Why Women Test Guys' by yours truly. It ties in almost directly with this post and can be found on Manic's page or the ASF archives.

Non-Supplication is an art in itself, just as seduction is, and it must be executed skillfully and with forethought.

Another potential danger to the whole non-supplication thing is quite simply, not knowing when to stop. In the recent article ‘Ultimatums', someone had pointed out that he had a chick who was perfectly willing to fuck, but because he wanted to come across as non-supplicative, he lost his chance of fucking her. It was that article that, in part, prompted me to write this one.

The is a really, REALLY simple rule to follow:

When a chick has decided that she wants to fuck, DON'T CHANGE A FUCKING THING!

Do not switch strategies. Do not try to not supplicate. Do not try to be more cool. The chick has already DECIDED that she wants to fuck which is the whole mind-set we wanted to get her in. Once she is definitely there, YOU NEED NOT DO MORE, other than fuck her of course.

This is akin to watching a salesman oversell a prospect on a particular product. It's a fucking disaster. The customer has already made up his mind that he is going to BUY the product, but yet the salesperson feels he still needs to continue trying to sell it, and he ultimately talks the customer right OUT of the sale. Make absolutely no mistake about it. In the same way, you can OVER-seduce a woman and talk her right out of the FUCK! Know when enough is enough. You will also find more information on this in the fore-mentioned article.

The Original "Shit-Test" Post by Alphahot1

A masterpiece I found on a site by Robert Greene, author of the legendary "Art of Seduction".

Thousands of years ago, power was mostly gained through physical violence and maintained with brute strength. There was little need for subtlety-a king or emperor had to be merciless. Only a select few had power, but no one suffered under this scheme of things more than women. They had no way to compete, no weapon at their disposal that could make a man do what they wanted-politically, socially, or even in the home.

Of course men had one weakness: their insatiable desire for sex. A woman could always toy with this desire, but once she gave in to sex the man was back in control; and if she withheld sex, he could simply look elsewhere-or exert force. What good was a power that was so temporary and frail? Yet women had no choice but to submit to this condition. There were some, though, whose hunger for power was too great, and who, over the years, through much cleverness and creativity, invented a way of turning the dynamic around, creating a more lasting and effective form of power.

These women-among them Bathsheba, from the Old Testament; Helen of Troy; the Chinese siren Hsi Shi; and the greatest of them all, Cleopatra-invented seduction. First they would draw a man in with an alluring appearance, designing their makeup and adornment to fashion the image of a goddess come to life. By showing only glimpses of flesh, they would tease a man's imagination, stimulating the desire not just for sex but for something greater: the chance to possess a fantasy figure. Once they had their victims' interest, these women would lure them away from the masculine world of war and politics and get them to spend time in the feminine world-a world of luxury, spectacle, and pleasure. They might also lead them astray literally, taking them on a journey, as Cleopatra lured Julius Caesar on a trip down the Nile. Men would grow hooked on these refined, sensual pleasures-they would fall in love. But then, invariably, the women would turn cold and indifferent, confusing their victims. Just when the men wanted more, they found their pleasures withdrawn. They would be forced into pursuit, trying anything to win back the favors they once had tasted, and growing weak and emotional in the process. Men who had physical force and all the social power-men like King David, the Trojan Paris, Julius Caesar, Mark Antony, King Fu Chai-would find themselves becoming the slave of a woman.

In the face of violence and brutality, these women made seduction a sophisticated art, the ultimate form of power and persuasion. They learned to work on the mind first, stimulating fantasies, keeping a man wanting more, creating patterns of hope and despair-the essence of seduction. Their power was not physical but psychological, not forceful but indirect and cunning. These first great seductresses were like military generals planning the destruction of an enemy, and indeed early accounts of seduction often compare it to battle, the feminine version of warfare. For Cleopatra, in fact, it was a means of consolidating an empire. In seduction, the woman was no longer a passive sex object; she had become an active agent, a figure of power.

With a few exceptions-the Latin poet Ovid, the medieval troubadours-men did not much concern themselves with such a frivolous art as seduction. Then, in the seventeenth century, came a great change: men grew interested in seduction, as a way to overcome a young woman's resistance to sex. History's first great male seducers-the Duke de Lauzun, the different Spaniards who inspired the Don Juan legend-began to adopt the methods traditionally employed by women. They learned to dazzle with their appearance (often androgynous in nature), to stimulate the imagination, to play the coquette. They also added a new, masculine element to the game: seductive language, for they had discovered a woman's weakness for soft words. These two forms of seduction-the feminine use of appearances and the masculine use of language-would often cross gender lines: Casanova would dazzle a woman with his clothes, Ninon de l'Enclos would charm a man with her words.

At the same time that men were developing their version of seduction, others began to adapt the art for social purposes. As Europe's feudal system of government faded into the past, courtiers needed to get their way in court without the use of force. They learned the power to be gained by seducing their superiors and competitors through psychological games, soft words, a little coquetry. As culture became democratized, actors, dandies, and artists came to use the tactics of seduction as a way to charm and win over their audience and social milieu. In the nineteenth century another great change occurred: politicians like Napoleon consciously saw themselves as seducers, on a grand scale. These men depended on the art of seductive oratory, but they also mastered what had once been feminine strategies: staging vast spectacles, using theatrical devices, creating a charged physical presence. All this, they learned, was the essence of charisma-and remains so today. By seducing the masses they could accumulate immense power without the use of force.

Today we have reached the ultimate point in the evolution of seduction. Now more than ever, force or brutality of any kind is discouraged. All areas of social life require the ability to persuade people in a way that does not offend or impose itself. Forms of seduction can be found everywhere, blending male and female strategies. Advertisements insinuate, the soft sell dominates. If we are to change people's opinions-and affecting opinion is basic to seduction-we must act in subtle, subliminal ways. Today no political campaign can work without seduction. Since the era of John F. Kennedy, political figures are required to have a degree of charisma, a fascinating presence, or they will lose their audience's attention, which is half the battle. The film world and media create a galaxy of seductive stars and images. We are saturated in the seductive. But even if much has changed in degree and scope, the essence of seduction is constant: never be forceful or direct; instead, use pleasure as bait, playing on people's emotions, stirring desire and confusion, inducing psychological surrender. In seduction as it is practiced today, the methods of Cleopatra still hold.

Do you know what these acronyms means?

PUA, AFC, GF, HB, AMOG, Social Proof, Target, UG, Wing, Cockblock, C+F,
One-itis, Obstacle, mASF, Sarge, AI, NLP, NEG, LBJF, IOI, Kino, EC, DHV?

Not? Well they are pretty common in the society of seduction and you might need to visit Fast Seductions 101 Wiki Project (the pickup artists dictionary) for explanation!

I was sitting down and thinking why the hell doesn't anybody make a compiled body language checklist? Then I realized that everyone is probably thinking the same thing as me so I took my lazy ass and wrote it. Of course its not full and it will never be but it gives you some good basics about body language.

1. Learn how to communicate with your body language
Did you know that the words we use only are 7% of what we communicate, and that the other 93% are done with body language. The way we use our body language? Its used with:

- how you express your body

- how you carry yourself

- how you move

- the speed of your movements

- the tone of your voice

- the speed of your voice

- how you breath

- how you hold eye contact

Maybe its time to become aware of how you act?

2. Be relaxed
One of the most important things when it comes to body language is to relax. Relaxing will keep you away from being nervous because where your body are, your mind will be.. and don't forget that its important to lean back as often as you can because it makes you look non needy, neediness is not attractive. Also don't be afraid to take up a lot of space no matter where you are, don't be the lonely guy in the club who holds his drink as a shield in front of him, be the relaxed guy who holds the drink with one hand hanging by the side.

3. Have a open body language
Sitting with your arms crossed will be interpreted as a shield, your closed and not open for discussion. Instead try to have your hands free not crossing each other, same thing with legs.. don't cross them instead have them open. When you stand up try to have your feet's spread away with your feet's away from each other at shoulder length andif you sit down, try sitting like you have the biggest dick on the planet because taking up much space will make you look dominant.

4. Don't hide your hands
Don't hide your hands behind your back or in your pockets, I know its tempting but hiding your hands behind your back will make girls perceive you as you are hiding something from them & same thing for putting your hands in the pocket plus you have them crossed like a shield which you read about in point 3.

5. Eye contact
In the animal kingdom eye contact are viewed in two ways.. aggressive & sexually, staring is aggressive while looking at someone without breaking eye contact is sexually. Rule # 1 when it comes to eye contact with a hottie - DONT BREAK IT! it makes you look weak, but do remember that giving a girl eye contact is to give her indication of interest which you don't wanna do 100% all the time unless she's being 100% favorably back to you which few girls do, but a good thing to do is to keep eye contact with a women at 70% that will make her comfortable with you looking at her. One other thing to think about is to not seek approval from women by looking, i.ex: Don't look at her when your saying something funny or if you touch her, its signal that you are seeking a reaction from her or even want her approval for doing what you did.

6. Master your voice
Don't talk to fast or you will come across as being nervous and another tip I have to you is from a girl I know that sings, she once told me that singing from your stomach will make your voice sound more beautiful and if you test it you will feel how powerful it is! so use it when you talk, this have given me some meet ups when I simply dialed wrong number.

7. Don't look down!
Look above the horizon, do you think you will get any eye contact if you look down on the ground? Also looking down will make you look depressed but if you do look up you will look confident since your exposing your throat which in the animal kingdom means "I'm not afraid of you", its used by lions to show that their not are afraid of other animals and its used by dogs when their playing with each other.. have you ever seen two dogs fight and one dog are superior to the other dog and it will lay on its back exposing the throat? its because it means "You can kill me but you can't take my pride!" of course dogs are teached at early stages by their mothers to not kill their challenges and to be a good winner by being pushed away from the challenger if they try to kill them.

8. Be confident about your movements
Walk confidently and slowly with bigger steps - once again we have something to learn from the lion, why would the lion hurry if its the king of animals? It doesn't have any superior challenges and therefore it doesn't have to hurry which saves energy and keeps it away from doing things that it didn't have the chance to think about.

9. Exaggerate
Have you ever noticed how social people often exaggerate their body movements? I think its a good thing to do.. why? Because people aren't used to your expressions as people you know. Exaggerate them and people will understand you more, still you don't wanna look like a clown but you can practice in front of a mirror until you know how you look without looking into a mirror no matter how stupid it sounds.

10. Congruency
I guess you don't want a voice like Al Pachino and a body movement like Speedy Gonzales? It needs to match and some things you can think about is speed of voice, speed of body movement, tonality of voice and clothing! Clothing is a extension of your body language, use max 3 colors if you can and make the belts & shoes match, girls notice.

An article about status of high/low quality people, transfer of status & what it means.. Sit down and relax becouse Hitori explains it all for us..

Chick logic makes sense.

The Basic Principle
Chicks act at all times to gain and maintain social status. This is more important to them than getting laid.

- Qualities of High Status People:

They are admired and desirable
All manner of people fit into this category, and to a certain extent it's cyclical; if you have high social value you're admired, and if you're admired you have high social value. On the other hand, there are all kinds of ways to be desirable and admired; hot chicks fit into this category, but so do politicians, rocket scientists, rockstars, PUAs, and rich men. In this category HBs have the upper hand. Evolution has engineered men to pick partners for health and beauty, so a nice set of tits WILL take you further in this world than a nice set of pecs. Go figure.

They are relaxed and confident
Confidence is VITAL to high social status. It doesn't matter whether you're confident because you graduated from the school of hard knocks or because you've had everything you ever wanted handed to you on a silver platter; if you're confident, you are relaxed in the knowledge that you can handle whatever life throws at you, and succeed at whatever you undertake.

You'll vibe this confidence at the people around you, and it will be a powerful positive experience for them. HSE people will appreciate you, and LSE people will desire or envy you.

Relaxation and confidence also means you're NOT NEEDY. This is good because needy men tend to come across as either pathetic or dangerous.

They behave naturally
This is what it means to 'be yourself', in the classic dating-advice sense. It doesn't mean burp and fart and be depressing if you feel like it. It means DON'T BE TRYHARD. I cannot stress this enough. Fake it till you make it, of course, by all means, but for God's sake MAKE IT. Socially intelligent people can -tell- when you are incongruent, and for women it's not just weird; it can actually be alarming.

It implies that you're hiding something - possibly one of the more dangerous low-social-status traits like fear, volatility, or disdain for the unattainable.

Their time and energy has value
If you have high social value, you recognize that your time and energy ALSO have value. This means you're willing to cut off boring threads of conversation - even with desirable people - and that you spend your time doing things that are ultimately productive, either in fun-value or in other ways. If some HB wanders off 'to the bathroom' or 'to go dance' on you, you have run out of fun-value. Sorry, tiger.

They are socially intelligent
If you are socially intelligent, you know the score. You can tell who is tryhard and who is not, who gets laid and who doesn't, what it means when two chicks eyecode each other, etc etc ad infinitum. You understand, intuitively, who has social status and who doesn't, and what's going on when two people flirt, and all manner of other things.

THIS MEANS YOU DO NOT HAVE TO VERBALIZE IT. FEELING YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT AS IT HAPPENS SHOWS YOU ARE *NOT* SOCIALLY INTELLIGENT. FIGHT THE URGE.

This means no "You're flirting with me, aren't you?!"s, no "Your pupils are dilated... They say that means women are turned on...".

HANDLE THESE PRONOUNCEMENTS WITH THE UTMOST CARE. People who recognize this shit with regularity _do not need to talk about it_. When you go to a football game with your buddies, do you all sit around going, "Look at that... He kicked the ball into the endzone! That means a goal, right? Awesome! He made a goal!"

NO! YOU DO NOT. You know the score.

The bad news about social intelligence is that if you are a guy most chicks, by and large, will have more of it than you. The good news is that it's an easy skill to acquire; all it takes is a willingness to observe people interacting and to TRUST the things you perceive this way. Most guys I know see many of the same things that women do, but because they don't (at first glance) have a clear logical framework to put them in, they ignore them as untrustworthy.

- Qualities of Low Status People:

They seek approval and acceptance
People with low social status suffer from a deficit of validation. Sometimes they legitimately don't get the recognition they deserve, and suffer from unwillingness or inability to reframe; other times it's because they're neurotic and LSE and no amount of validation will ever be enough. Unable to validate themselves, they seek approval and acceptance from other people.

They are volatile and anxious
The world is a frightening place when you don't know what's going to happen next and you don't know if you'll be able to deal with it, whatever it is. People without confidence react to this great, frightening unknown with a level of perpetual anxiety that they vibe at others. Driven by their own percieved helplessness and rage, they will explode with fits of anger, or display disproportionate fear; of women, of change, etc.

They try to buy what they can't earn
In terms of social status, this is very important. People who don't understand how to DHV will try to BUY approval. On ASF, this is known as supplication. It DOES NOT increase your social status or make you desirable to women. If it's clear you're trying to buy appproval, you will LOSE VALUE. A chick's reaction to a man she does not already find desirable supplicating for approval is about the same as YOUR reaction when you stop at a red light and some hobo goes to squeejee your windshield for dollars. Maybe you'll give him your spare change, sure - but what if he was asking for sex? Would you bang him?

I thought not.

They disdain what they can't have
People with low social status disdain what they can't have. Helpless to attain what they desire, they reject it pre-emptively instead.
This means men who hate hot women.
This means women who hate hot women.
This means UGs who hate the idea of anyone getting laid.
This means men who hate confident, competent men.

They are NOT socially intelligent.

Transfer of Status
These are general principles of things that will increase your social status. If you don't have any in the first place, these -will not work-, I repeat, -will not work-. They require a steady foundation of at least moderate coolness. With that said...
- You Gain Status When:

Your worth is recognized and appreciated
The higher the social status of the person appreciating you, the more status you gain. This is key. KEY KEY KEY KEY. Get out a highlighter, use it on your computer monitor if you have to. Remember this.

THIS IS WHY SOCIAL PROOF WORKS.

Not only that; if you establish high value, women WILL RISK LOSING VALUE to gain your approval. They'll gamble. They'll chase you.

This is also why, in those instances when you overqualify and DHV the fuck out of some poor HB7 until she locks up, you MUST qualify her. If you do not qualify her, you are obviously not recognizing and appreciating her genuine merit - there is NO REASON for someone as cool as you to take a legit interest in her. You are using her as a blow-up doll that moans.

The higher your social value, the more women will want you to recognize and appreciate them. If you're a sufficiently cool PUA, women will try to snag you for an LTR _even if they're not looking for an LTR otherwise_, just for the implicit social proof you provide. This is purely social reflex. More to the point, of course, they'll hook up with you.

People seek your approval
When people qualify themselves to you, or visibly try to impress you, they are being TRYHARD. But what this says to someone who knows the score is that you have social value. You are worth impressing; more, to LookAtMeLikeMeDude, you are worth losing status to impress.

You display competence naturally
When you DHV without being tryhard, you gain cool-points. This isn't rocket science, and should not require explanation.

You cement someone's position beneath you
There are, essentially, three ways of cementing someone's position beneath you; you can give them the carrot, give them the stick, or give them both at once.

For any of these to work, you must have the social status to back them up. This doesn't create something from nothing; it broadens the divide that already exists.

It's possible to display higher value than someone by being nice; if they seek your approval and you grant it, or call them 'cute' or other nice-but-diminutive-nicknames, or act - more generally - in a parental sort of way. Also included here is genuinely helpful advice, on fashion or food or PU.

It's possible to display higher value than someone by being cruel; you can call them out on their flaws or their low-status behaviors easily enough. There is a danger, here, of seeming to snub because you envy. Envy implies uncoolness.

Finally, there exists the backhanded compliment or subtle snub. You out-AMOG some guy like he's one of your best pals, and on the surface it's all in good fun, but his value plummets and yours soars. Likewise, if you neg some chick or use TD's Elastic Snapband Effect, her value -insta-drops- and because women are driven to maintain social status, she will immediately hop-to to get it back up. It's not about getting laid; the IOI, in this case, is all about value.

You IMPLICITLY display social intelligence
IMPLICITLY. In other words, you THINK LIKE A CHICK. You eyecode. You AMOG-destroy. You are part of the 'Secret Society'.

Here I'm going to back up on everything I've implied so far and say the reverse; it's possible to explicitly display your social intelligence and make it work. HANDLE WITH CARE, though. This is DANGER, WILL ROBINSON. If you don't have the value to pull it off, you'll look like a creepy presumptuous loser.

If some chick is clearly trying to qualify herself to you, or transparently DHVing, or even just struggling for your attention, you can neg-qualify her in the following manner, playfully: "It's okay, you don't have to (do that/try hard/whatever) to get my attention. See?" Throw an arm around her, kinohug her. The first time a guy did this to me, it hit me like a -bomb- of insta-hotness. By doing this, you simultaneously A) drop her value relative to yours, B) grant her attention from a position of power, and C) show you know the score.

You screen
If you screen people who are attracted to you, you increase your relative value. This is why women maintain that NO WOMAN EVER DELIBERATELY GETS LAID with a man who is not wildly attractive and high-status. But WE know that of course women get laid on purpose! It's not like that HB8 you did over the weekend tripped, fell, and landed on your dick. If someone CHASES you, their status is lower than yours. This is why you say, "Want to come over and look at my stamp collection?" rather than, "Want to come over and have sex?". SLUTS CHASE. Chicks with value are accustomed to screening. It's important for her to maintain the illusion that she did not INTEND to fuck you, in order to maintain her social value.

A good way to display social intelligence is to understand and accommodate this. This is why explicitly acknowledging the seduction process is dangerous: if it's out on the table, out loud, that you're trying to fuck her and she -goes along with it anyway- she LOSES FACE because she's been UNMASKED as a co-conspirator in your getting laid.

This is where chick logic comes from. I'll write another post on it, sometime.

- You Lose Status When:

You show outcome-dependence
When you show that you are outcome-dependent, you LOSE FACE. By demonstrating outcome-dependence, you make it clear that you aren't having fun (which high-status people do, remember) - instead you are gambling your time and status in the hopes of pay-off in the form of sex with this chick who you clearly regard as COOLER THAN YOURSELF. You are acknowledging her value. She is the prize. Do not pass go. Do not collect 200 dollars.

You try to buy approval
You supplicate. You imply that you don't know how to legitimately display your own worth, so you need to resort to trying to buy the approval of those you are implicitly acknowledging as being higher-value than yourself. If she wasn't cooler than you, why would you care what she thought?

Your position is cemented as below someone
You are out-amog'd. You are treated in a diminutive way. Some chick gives you bad relationship advice and you eat it up without critical thinking. This is all explained above, in the 'gaining status' section.

You chase
Chasing is a _gamble_. Chasing is aggressive pursuit. It can succeed, sure - but it allows the other person, the higher-status person, the chas-ee- the ability to screen. They choose, you don't.

SLUTS CHASE. Women will avoid being labelled 'sluts' at all costs because they are at the BOTTOM of the social totem-pole, with the WBAFCs. Sluts in the traditional sense are women whose need for validation is so great that they have gambled away all their buying power trying to fill it.

A woman who is perceived as slutty has a hard time finding quality ass because quality ass is likely to screen _her_. She is a LAST RESORT FUCK.

Not only that, but other women (and men) on their way up the social ladder will step on her, on the way. They will use her to reinforce their own superiority.

The 'slut' is a lightning-rod for the 'cement someone's position as below you' method of gaining status.

Sad, but true.

- What this means for the PUA:

For the PUA, this is GREAT. This is WONDERFUL. Why is this great for the PUA?

Because the PUA has -worked- for his social status, and he knows how he got it.

It was not delivered by the stork along with a nice set of tits, or trim and shapely thighs and a button nose; no, he's invested field work and sweat and other bodily fluids in getting good, and he is -good-.

Thus he can work women in ways that women are not equipped to work him.

Consider the following analogy; who's better off, a self-made millionare or a lotto winnner? The self-made man! Why? Because he knows the value of his money, and how to invest it and make it grow.

Some of this seems ruthless; be aware that women aren't thinking about it, when they do it. For most women, this is all pure instinct.

Hitori

The Neg Theory by Mystery is very famous in the community of seduction, still it's not clear to everyone so here it is..

A hot girl is there, surrounded by her friends. She has put on this bitch act. But is she really a bitch? Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings. Beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it.

But – she needs to have a standard when all these loser guys approach her. So her values are very honed and understood. When a man walks up and says, "Can I buy you a beer� this will annoy her. While the guy thinks he's doing something nice for her, she gets this constantly and is desensitized to it. You are the eighth guy today!

So she is very good at brushing all these guys off. She has to be... she isn't going to sleep with all of them! So she may say ‘no,’ act annoyed, or use some other shielding mechanism, and then the poor guy thinks she's a bitch and he walks off angry and feeling like a failure. And that seems to work. Sometimes when the girl is particularly feeling powerful (like when she’s in a club) she will accept the beer and then flake the guy off. Hey, the guys are stupid enough to buy her one; she might as well take it.

When she accepts a beer from you, the girl is really saying, "I don't know you and I don't care about you. You are just another one of those typical guys and since I don't respect you, I’ll take the beer from you before I snub you.�

Since hot girls are so good at snubbing your approach, snubbing them is important. You cannot insult them, because they are accustomed to all the hurt guys insulting them ("You are nothing but a bitch!") so this rolls off their back like water off a muskrats ass.

How do you snub them without insulting them? Well, let's say she has long nails, which are most likely fake. Now why do women dress so fine if they don't want the attention? Sometimes they love the feeling of control. They are in a club with friends and they want to be the leader of their social circle and get all the attention. The guys come and buy drinks for them and she gets a kick out of knocking the guys down. It’s all in a days play. So, she is wearing fake nails to look even better! Most guys will say, "Wow you are so beautiful!" Boring, typical and in her mind by now, true (after years of this.)

Imagine now, a guy comes along and says "Nice nails. Are they real?" She will have to concede, "No, acrylic." And he says (like he didn't notice it was a put down), "Oh. (pause) well I guess they still look good." Then he turns his back to her.

What does this do to her? Well, he didn't treat her like shit and insult her. Instead, he complimented her, but the result was to target her insecurity. She thinks, "I’m hot I’m beautiful� – (especially in her current emotional state of control) – “but I didn't win this guy over. I’m so good at this… I’ll just fix that little smear on my image that he has of me."

Then you continue to show disinterest in her looks as you give her a neutral topic like the Elvis bit. During this time, her intention is to get you to become like all the other guys so she can feel in control and snub you. Then you give her another Neg like this: "Is that a hair piece? Well, it’s neat... what do you call this hairstyle? The waffle?" Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting. You are pleasant but disinterested in her beauty. This will intrigue her because she knows guys. And this isn't normal. You must have really high taste, or be used to girls, or be married or something. These questions make her curious. So this keeps happening and is known as flirting. She gives you little negs and these tests are qualifiers. You pass them by negging her back. After all, you aren't like the others showing interest. But... why not?

To get control again, she says, "Will you buy me a drink?" Notice how she is trying to get you now! But, she only wants to sucker you in enough so she can snub you. That is all she is about – this strategy is all she knows and it's not working on you so she is trying to do damage control on the situation. But at the same time she doesn't quite understand why you don’t think she’s “all that.� After all, her nails are fake.

You say, "Ah, that's so funny ... your nose wiggles when you speak......� – (pointing and being cute) – “look there it goes again ... it’s so... quaint ... hheeeee look." She'll say, "Ahh, stoppp!" :) *blush*. Now she is self-conscious and this is where you want her. You have, with three negs, successfully created interest (curiosity) and removed her from her pedestal (removed her protection shield.) You were humorous, you had a smile, you dress well, you are confident and everything she would want in a man.

You didn't take her shit. Oh… and when she asked you for a beer, you said, "No. I don't buy girls drinks. But you can buy me one.� You are qualifying her now. If she buys you a beer, this is symbolic of her respect for you.

If not, you say, "Pleasure meeting you" [not sarcastically] and turn your back to her again. Don’t walk away, just turn your back. You are negging her again just when she thought she was negging you. You are teasing each other. It’s flirting – this is all textbook psychology.

A neg is a qualifier. The girl is failing to meet your high expectations. It's not an insult, just a judgment call on your part. You’re not even trying to make her feel bad (so it seems.) It’s the same as if you pulled out a tissue and blew your nose. There’s nothing insulting about blowing your nose. You haven’t explicitly rejected her. But at the same time, she will sincerely believe that you aren’t trying to impress her. This creates curiosity and makes you a challenge.

The better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using negs. A 10 can get three negs up front, while an 8 gets only one or two over a longer time. You can go overboard if she thinks you are better than her (which happens more often that you’d think.) You can drop the self-esteem right out from under her, just like most 10s do to guys, and this isn't good. You have to get as close to the breaking point as you can without crossing the line. Once you have gotten her right there, you can start appreciating things about her (not her looks.) There is a mutual respect now – something most guys never get from the girl.

This is how you remove a protection shield. Three negs ought to do it within two of three minutes of neutral chat. Once it is removed, you can, from a place of mutual respect, seduce her.

Sample Negs:

YOU: "I don't think we should get to know each other.

"HER: "Why not?"

YOU: "I think you are just too much of a nice girl for me."

If your target says something even slightly rude you say, "You don't get out much do you?"

If your target interrupts you, say, "Hello, I’m talking, geez" or, "Excuse me... may I finish my sentence first?" You then say to others in the group, "Is she always like that?"

If you are asking a question to two women and the target answers you say, "I didn't ask you, silly."

If you pull out your photos for the photo routine, first show them to the obstacle. When the target tries to see them, say, "Excuse me! I’m showing her the pictures not you. Wait your turn geez."

If a girl kisses you on the cheek and goes to kiss your other cheek, tell her, "Only one ... don't be greedy." If she says, "Yes, but I’m French", you reply, "Are all French girls as greedy as you?"

"That's a nice hairstyle ... it that your real hair?" Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting.

HER: "Oh, I'm a model."

YOU: "What, like a hand model or something?"

"Ewww, your palms are sweaty ... ewwww!!!!! Where have your hands been? No, don't tell me, I do not want to know!"

"You've got something in your ear."

"I think your hair would look better [up/down]."

"Where's your off-button?"