Is Being Bad better than being Good?
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We all know a jerk is not the kind of guy we'd like to identify ourselves with. He's mean, selfish and generally a scumbag. BUT … he gets a hell of a lot more pussy than wimpy nice guys.
I don't want you to become a jerk, hell no! What I do want though, is that you take on certain jerk-traits. That's right baby, you will have to gain those invisible things jerks have and do what makes them sexy so you become the same. I didn't mean the mean bastard traits, only the ones women love and find so irresistible about jerks … You starting to get it now? J We just take what we need and trash the rest.
So what is it about jerks women find so irresistible?
Jerks are naturally very selfish, abusive and take what they want from women. This is NOT what attracts women, in fact they hate guys like that. BUT, there's something going on in the background that women love about these guys. You know what it is?
Jerks are bad boys!
Bad boys don't portray this A+ well-behaved Sunday school student image. A bad boy is exciting, doesn't like rules but rather makes his own and has an adventurous aura that surrounds him. You see the connection to the nice guy and why he sucks so much at becoming successful with women? He doesn't have much more to offer than to kiss up to a woman and buy her things.
You know “The Simpsons”, the TV series right? Who do you think is going to be more fun for women once they grow up?
Bart Simpson who always gets into trouble for being cheeky or Martin Prince, the nerd with the best grades and the teachers pet? I know it's just TV, but you see exactly those characters in real life too. Nerds are lame, nice, boring and do everything a good person should, whereas bad boys cross the line, do what they wanna do and like it their way. Being bad gets women excited and attracted to you. So you see, it's good to be bad!
And YES, I still hold the high score for hours in detention in my school *evil grin*.
Jerks are so attractive because they are dominant, aggressive, unpredictable and hardly controllable. All the traits a woman wants in a guy. They are all confident and on top of that, what a hell of a challenge these guys are. Women like to tame wild guys, not an already perfectly moulded and shaped asswipe.
But jerks take it too far more than often and behave like selfish pricks. Some are complete assholes who treat women like chickenshit. No female on earth finds this attractive and gets turned on by that … ah well, some biatch with a weird fetish in Peking maybe. But the smart way to go is to filter the hot traits and fry the rest. You see, by putting all the sexy traits in this world together, the outcome is pure attraction. That is the reason why Real men are more desirable than jerks: They have almost no qualities a woman wouldn't want in a guy. They're just hot and women fling themselves at them.
All right Urcle, one last thing:
It is still better to be a jerk than a wimp! Jerks are assholes, indeed, but they still get 30 times more pussy than wimps and nice guys combined. I ain't telling you that you have to become an abusive person who treats women like dirt n' all, but you have to stick to what works in this world. Use the jerks as role models and try to model their behaviour to some degree. Nice guys only drag you down with their advice like: “Just be yourself”, “It wasn't your fault, she was just a bitch” or: “There's plenty more fish in the sea.”
I mean c'mon, the last thing you wanna do is hang and listen to guys who can't do any better. If you manage, make friends with Playboys and Real men because they are the real deal when it comes to success with women, although they are scarce as hell.
Right, to sum it up real quick … Wimps and nice guys lose out because they are predictable, boring and unattractive towards women and have no clue how attraction works for females. They think by being nice, polite and generous the women will like them, but the result is quite the contrary. She will walk all over him or just ditch him with a: “You know … you're a really nice guy but let's just be friends” because she got bored and lost all respect.
Face it, ass kissing doesn't work if you wanna get some so stop doing it right now!
Women say they don't like jerks and assholes, but that's who they get naked with. What women say and what women respond to are two different things my man, so you better start being bad instead of nice if you want to be sexy, challenging and interesting for da ladies.
Here's a little overview:
Wimp / Nice Guy
• Is insecure.
• Is boring.
• Too clingy.
• Too nice and polite.
• Tells women early on that he likes or loves her.
• Calls her 50 times a week or sends her 500 text messages within 7 days.
• Asks: “Err … do you wanna go out/have a drink sometime?”.
• Uses lame one liners and overused pick-up lines.
• Can't say no.
• Gets jealous quickly and starts whining & complaining.
• Thinks the woman comes first and does everything for her.
Result: Women walk all over these guys.
There's no spark of attraction because he's too boring.
Jerk
• Is confident.
• Isn't needy and clingy.
• Is too much in love with himself.
• Poser
• Doesn't call women constantly.
• Thinks he can get any woman.
• Is picky.
• Is arrogant and selfish.
• Does what he wants.
• Does get jealous and starts being abusive & aggressive
• Puts his interests above the ones of women.
Result: Women are attracted to him even though he's a scumbag. They know that jerks are selfish assholes but prefer them over nice guys. Being bad is still better than being good.
The two profiles above should have given you a good overview of the first characters involved in the dating game. Now let's turn up the heat and get down to the real man. This will be the kind of guy I'm going to drill into you, and in time you'll be on fire.
We all know a jerk is not the kind of guy we'd like to identify ourselves with. He's mean, selfish and generally a scumbag. BUT … he gets a hell of a lot more pussy than wimpy nice guys.
I don't want you to become a jerk, hell no! What I do want though, is that you take on certain jerk-traits. That's right baby, you will have to gain those invisible things jerks have and do what makes them sexy so you become the same. I didn't mean the mean bastard traits, only the ones women love and find so irresistible about jerks … You starting to get it now? J We just take what we need and trash the rest.
So what is it about jerks women find so irresistible?
Jerks are naturally very selfish, abusive and take what they want from women. This is NOT what attracts women, in fact they hate guys like that. BUT, there's something going on in the background that women love about these guys. You know what it is?
Jerks are bad boys!
Bad boys don't portray this A+ well-behaved Sunday school student image. A bad boy is exciting, doesn't like rules but rather makes his own and has an adventurous aura that surrounds him. You see the connection to the nice guy and why he sucks so much at becoming successful with women? He doesn't have much more to offer than to kiss up to a woman and buy her things.
You know “The Simpsons”, the TV series right? Who do you think is going to be more fun for women once they grow up?
Bart Simpson who always gets into trouble for being cheeky or Martin Prince, the nerd with the best grades and the teachers pet? I know it's just TV, but you see exactly those characters in real life too. Nerds are lame, nice, boring and do everything a good person should, whereas bad boys cross the line, do what they wanna do and like it their way. Being bad gets women excited and attracted to you. So you see, it's good to be bad!
And YES, I still hold the high score for hours in detention in my school *evil grin*.
Jerks are so attractive because they are dominant, aggressive, unpredictable and hardly controllable. All the traits a woman wants in a guy. They are all confident and on top of that, what a hell of a challenge these guys are. Women like to tame wild guys, not an already perfectly moulded and shaped asswipe.
But jerks take it too far more than often and behave like selfish pricks. Some are complete assholes who treat women like chickenshit. No female on earth finds this attractive and gets turned on by that … ah well, some biatch with a weird fetish in Peking maybe. But the smart way to go is to filter the hot traits and fry the rest. You see, by putting all the sexy traits in this world together, the outcome is pure attraction. That is the reason why Real men are more desirable than jerks: They have almost no qualities a woman wouldn't want in a guy. They're just hot and women fling themselves at them.
All right Urcle, one last thing:
It is still better to be a jerk than a wimp! Jerks are assholes, indeed, but they still get 30 times more pussy than wimps and nice guys combined. I ain't telling you that you have to become an abusive person who treats women like dirt n' all, but you have to stick to what works in this world. Use the jerks as role models and try to model their behaviour to some degree. Nice guys only drag you down with their advice like: “Just be yourself”, “It wasn't your fault, she was just a bitch” or: “There's plenty more fish in the sea.”
I mean c'mon, the last thing you wanna do is hang and listen to guys who can't do any better. If you manage, make friends with Playboys and Real men because they are the real deal when it comes to success with women, although they are scarce as hell.
Right, to sum it up real quick … Wimps and nice guys lose out because they are predictable, boring and unattractive towards women and have no clue how attraction works for females. They think by being nice, polite and generous the women will like them, but the result is quite the contrary. She will walk all over him or just ditch him with a: “You know … you're a really nice guy but let's just be friends” because she got bored and lost all respect.
Face it, ass kissing doesn't work if you wanna get some so stop doing it right now!
Women say they don't like jerks and assholes, but that's who they get naked with. What women say and what women respond to are two different things my man, so you better start being bad instead of nice if you want to be sexy, challenging and interesting for da ladies.
Here's a little overview:
Wimp / Nice Guy
• Is insecure.
• Is boring.
• Too clingy.
• Too nice and polite.
• Tells women early on that he likes or loves her.
• Calls her 50 times a week or sends her 500 text messages within 7 days.
• Asks: “Err … do you wanna go out/have a drink sometime?”.
• Uses lame one liners and overused pick-up lines.
• Can't say no.
• Gets jealous quickly and starts whining & complaining.
• Thinks the woman comes first and does everything for her.
Result: Women walk all over these guys.
There's no spark of attraction because he's too boring.
Jerk
• Is confident.
• Isn't needy and clingy.
• Is too much in love with himself.
• Poser
• Doesn't call women constantly.
• Thinks he can get any woman.
• Is picky.
• Is arrogant and selfish.
• Does what he wants.
• Does get jealous and starts being abusive & aggressive
• Puts his interests above the ones of women.
Result: Women are attracted to him even though he's a scumbag. They know that jerks are selfish assholes but prefer them over nice guys. Being bad is still better than being good.
The two profiles above should have given you a good overview of the first characters involved in the dating game. Now let's turn up the heat and get down to the real man. This will be the kind of guy I'm going to drill into you, and in time you'll be on fire.
True true :)
But it also depends on the kinda lady you're after :)
Posted by Rikki | 4/19/2006 2:45 AM
There is some truth the to article. I'm your typical nice girl but when a guy is too clingy, and gives me that "I'm the ONE" vibe or that "I'm the center of his universe" vibe and gives me all the power in the relationship, it brings out the bitch in me and I start treating him like crap. I think for me what it comes down to is that I want someone who has a life already, and even more...a backbone, because if this guy is going to "protect" me and be the man in the relationship, I can't be stronger than he is, otherwise I am better off being alone.
Posted by Anonymous | 11/24/2006 9:10 PM